Below are signs that may indicate that a friend or family member is in an abusive relationship. If you suspect that a friend or family member is in an abusive relationship, please call Delta Police Department at 604.946.4411 or Victim Services at 604.940.5019
Permanent disability (blindness, deafness, epilepsy, loss of mobility)
Broken bones and/or teeth
Head or spinal injuries
Cuts, headaches, concussion, bruises
Hiding injuries
Living in constant fear
Feelings of shame, guilt, or embarrassment
Low self-esteem
Depression
Eating and sleep problems
Loss of energy
Self-blame and self-harm
Suicidal thoughts/tendencies
Limited access to money or a car
No access to bank accounts
Forbidden to attend work
Has no control over how money is spent
No child support
Poor body image and low self-esteem
Inability to have healthy sexual relationships
An unplanned pregnancy
Reproductive and gynecological problems
Loss of sense of self
Feeling of hopelessness and isolation
Loss of culture
Loss of connection to faith and/or community
Make excuses for the abuser’s behaviour
Be nervous talking when abuser is there
Seem sick and miss work
Try to cover bruises and injuries
Make last-minute excuses about why the abuser can’t meet you
